Material memory – Women and Quilting
For me the passage into womanhood was marked by a summer I chose to take off, between University and beyond, to teach myself to bake bread and make a quilt.
Watching a programme on Georgian England last night brought this home to me. Quilts and embroidery were were how Georgian women expressed creativity, passed on memories, skills and valuable pieces of work. One mother spent eight long years saving enough to be able to reclaim her son from an orphanage, and identified him by the scrap of fabric from the embroidered clothing which was in the orphanage register.
For the past few year, Ina May Gaskin, midwife extraordinaire, and author of Spiritual Midwifery has been creating a Quilt of Safe Motherhood to draw attention to the high rates of maternal deaths in the US which the authorities keep quiet. The facts are horrific, the quilted panels in memory of each woman are heart breaking.
http://www.rememberthemothers.org/
Patchwork is making a comeback. Like many other domestic skills: vegetable growing, baking, knitting, making your own clothes. We seem to be hungering for both the practical skills and the need to be creating, making and connected to the objects that fill our homes rather than being mere consumers, buying disposable fripperies.
Do you stitch? How many projects do you have lying started? I have a flower fairy quilt, laid out but waiting to be pinned, that is supposed to be a Christmas present for my dear Merrily. Somehow I don’t think that’s going to happen. I also have a star patchwork of Japanese fabrics that I started when living in Kyoto, full of carp, dragons, tigers, kanji writing and indigo fabrics. I am STUCK with that! I get it out every six months and shift the pieces around. I have also made paper patchworks. And I hoard fabrics for future projects…a habit I learnt from my mother!
Here’s to stitching…without the bitching. To women’s circles, creativity and crafting together!
A comment via a dear new friend who lives in Amish country in the US: “In the area where I live there is hardly a woman alive that doesn’t quilt. People drive from all over the country to buy quilts from the Anabaptist women. In churches, every wedding and baby is commemorated with the giving of a quilt by the members.”
I did lots of quilting when I was an expat – there was a big crafting group in Kyrgyzstan who inspired me. While I lived abroad and had lots of time I made a quilt – it’s not that big, wouldn’t cover a single bed, but it’s made up of lots of scraps of fabric with memories so is very special to me.
Sewing it around the world – while listening to Wimbledon over the Internet, overlooking the Nile from our Aswan house; pregnant in Copenhagen, backing and edging it in Kyrgyzstan – I stitched lots of memories into it too.
Thanks Saffia – how wonderful, that sounds SO special! I got lots of fabric when living and working in Kyoto, Japan, and started a quilt there, with kanji, tigers, carp and indigo prints, and have never been able to figure out how to assemble it.
Note to readers: you walk on hallowed ground- Ina May Gaskin herself has read this post. OMG!!!!! As a friend said, it’s like getting an email from God!
Ha ha! Forgot I’d mentioned the Japanese quilt above, at least you know it’s real!!!
wow…. i want ina may to read my blog someday. 🙂 i love this post. here is my post about the quilt i haven’t finished yet. 😉
http://marybethrew.earthhuggy.com/2010/12/river-quilt/